Secrets to Sending the Perfect First Message on a Dating App
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Secrets to Sending the Perfect First Message on a Dating App
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DON'T: Say “Hey”/“how are u”/“sup.”
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DON'T: Neg them.
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DON'T: Tell someone how amazing they are right off the bat.
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DON'T: Send ONLY a gif or emoji.
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DON'T: Send a sexually explicit first message.
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DON'T: Tackle politics right away.
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DON'T: Go straight in and ask for a date.
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DON'T: Write a novel.
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DON'T: Use the same intro for everyone.
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DON'T: Harass your match.
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DO: Make them laugh.
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DO: Show you've read their profile.
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DO: Be earnest.
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DO: Have decent grammar.
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DO: Show a bit of vulnerability.
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DO: Find something you have in common.
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DO: Ask open-ended questions.
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DO: Talk to them like they're a person, not a conquest.
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DO: Give a unique compliment.
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DO: Target something other than their looks.
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DO: Be a bit cheeky, or even corny!
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DON'T: Think too hard about it!
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Redbook
Step 1: Eliminate "hey ;)" from your repertoire.